If you really want to treat your wife right this Mother's Day, spoil her like the sexy lady she is. Let the kids have the day to pamper her and present her with gifts fit for a motherly queen. Your job, at night, after the lights go down is to treat her like the woman she is.

Romancing and Mother's Day can go together nicely if you put the right spin on your plans. There are some things you should do to set the stage. This is especially so if you and your wife still have little ones at home.

Remember, the day is for the children and their mother. Help them spoil her rotten with breakfast out at a fancy restaurant or in bed. Make sure they have their gifts lined up and even have one in place for you to present along with theirs. Slip in a surprise in yours, however. Make it clear early on in the day you have some serious plans for later. When the kids give her their presents, give her a gift basket of luxurious bath supplies or gourmet sensations. Include a note in the card that eludes to dinner out and a night on the town later. Give her a wink when you hand over your surprise.

Now, you do not want to end your planning by lining up a sitter and making reservations for dinner. Out do yourself and show her just how special she is by:

· Having a new dress for her to wear during the evening. If you do not know what to buy or the right size, enlist one of her friends to help. · Having roses to present her before you go. Hide these in the broom closest if you must. · Having tickets to a show she has been dying to see. Whether it is a musical at a performing arts center or a movie does not matter. If she wants to see it, take her. Do this after a special dinner, of course. · Lining up a romantic suite in a nearby hotel. Book the sitter for the night and surprise her after the show with a full night of pampering and romancing in a special destination. If possible, book a honeymoon suite at a local hotel, and make sure you both have the next day off so you can let her sleep in again. For an extra special touch, have a few presents waiting for her at the hotel, too. A sexy gift basket you would not want the kids to see is perfect. More flowers and some champagne never hurt either.

Mother's Day is all about showing your wife just how special she is. If you want to do it up right, do not forget to honor the woman she is.